One can say that there are definitely connections between gender and sexuality. Gender and sexuality can combine to make a huge difference in people’s lives. There are social influences around sexuality that influence us all. Expectations about how women and men, boys and girls, should behave as well as how everyone will be either male or female pervade society. And as a man or female it is believed that one must act and behave completely heterosexual and stay in line with these socialized gender stereotypes. Heterosexuality and homosexuality depend on sex and gender as concepts. Gender typing and social stigmas around sexuality are two things that are very prevalent in society today.
Sociologists have argued that people learn gender roles and gender stereotypes through socialization. Gender role socialization often reinforces gender inequality because men and women are expected to fulfill their specific “gender roles”. We live in a society where there are only two perceived genders. Gender is implicated in homophobia more generally and in “fag discourse” specifically. In this paper I will talk about the connections between gender and sexuality.
The article “What it Means to be Gendered Me” by Betsy Lucal examines how gender is structured and socialized in the US. It also examines the social construction of gender and the implications of gender. Gender is pervasive in our society with people constantly attributing gender to other people because it is what we are socialized to do. Betsy Lucal provided an analysis of her experiences as a woman whose appearances often leads to gender misattribution due to the fact that there are “two and only two” genders (Lucal, 301). These socialized gender types make it hard for people who don’t fit within the “norm” in regards to appropriate gender displays can have a variety of consequences. Lucal concluded that she “cannot choose not to participate in it. [gender] Even if I try not to do gender, other people will do it for me. That is, given our two-and-two rule, they must attribute one of the two traditions to me.” (Lucal, 310) She is seen as deviant to society because she doesn’t fit her normal gender role.
The link between gender and sexuality is also examined. The article “Dude, You’re a Fag” written by Pasco looks at the relationship between...